{"id":7010,"date":"2016-02-03T12:04:32","date_gmt":"2016-02-03T01:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.posingcoach.com.au\/?p=916"},"modified":"2016-02-03T12:04:32","modified_gmt":"2016-02-03T01:04:32","slug":"tips-on-setting-yourself-up-for-success-after-you-fitness-and-bikini-modelling-competition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/addydesignbegins.com\/posing\/tips-on-setting-yourself-up-for-success-after-you-fitness-and-bikini-modelling-competition\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips on setting yourself up for success after you fitness and bikini modelling competition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Because your life needs substance beyond your reflection in the mirror and your 30 seconds on stage\u2026<\/p>\n<p>An honest, real and raw post from a posing champion on mine Jackie on what so many girls (including myself) go through post comp.<\/p>\n<p>#Repost @jackiebutler_<\/p>\n<p>\u30fb\u30fb\u30fb<\/p>\n<p>? &#8211; So many people ask me what I&#8217;m doing now, am I competing again, what&#8217;s my goals etc. My answer every time is, &#8220;I just want to be happy with myself again&#8221;. I was training because I loved it, I was excited to see my body change, I had learnt to love myself &amp; be confident in my own skin, which is something I hadn&#8217;t ever felt before. Once I felt I had got to the best condition I&#8217;d ever been in, I decided to give competing a go. I fell in love with the process, I had so much drive &amp; determination. Every day I gave my 110% to become the &#8216;best&#8217; version of me. Little did I know, this feeling would be short lived. Post comp, literally an hour post comp- I hated myself. The day after, I hated myself. The week after, still hated myself. The next season, I hated myself. I thought competing for a second time would make me love myself again, but it just made me realise that putting so much effort into your body to give 4 judges what they want, and then being told it&#8217;s not enough is just heart breaking. I get it, it&#8217;s a sport, it&#8217;s competitive, girls put their heart &amp; soul into looking absolutely incredible for that stage time.<\/p>\n<p>So, my answer to &#8216;what am I doing now&#8217;; For now, for me, for my mental state- I am learning to love me. I am building the body I want, not what someone else needs me to be. I want to be happy with my body, healthy in my mind &amp; I want to live a flexible life. Finally, 4 months since my last comp- I&#8217;m there &amp; it&#8217;s going to stay this way.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_917\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-917\" style=\"width: 219px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-917\" src=\"https:\/\/www.posingcoach.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Jackie-Nat-kitney-posing-coach-bikini-fitness-model-posing-coach-melbourne-competiting-body-building-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"Jackie Nat kitney posing coach bikini fitness model posing coach melbourne competition body building\" width=\"219\" height=\"389\" data-id=\"917\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-917\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">@jackiebutler_<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nats tips on setting yourself up for success post comp:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Set goals for post comp. Some on the best advice I got was \u201cTrue champions and gold medallists have already planned past the gold medal\u201d set nutrition, training, body weight, photoshoot goals for after you competition<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Love your body first, then set a date to compete. Train hard and eat well not for a competition, not for your partner, not to prove anything to others but for yourself.<\/li>\n<li>Realise that what you like on stage is not what you will look like every day. Yes your stage body is a reflection of months of hard work of diet and training which can be maintained to a certain degree off stage but realise that your body on comp day is also a product of carbohydrate, sodium and water manipulation with a flawless dark comp tan (if you go through Midnight Spray Tanning) the perfect lighting and posing!<\/li>\n<li>Realise that competing is not your identity \u2013 know the difference between identity and behaviour &#8211; it is WHAT YOU DO NOT WHO YOU ARE.<\/li>\n<li>Realise being successful on stage does not reflect your success in life.<\/li>\n<li>Realise that life is so much more than a 6 pack, perky bikini booty and your 30 seconds on stage.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>NEVER FORGET &#8211; You are beautiful both inside and out no matter how the judges judge you or whether your competing or not. Be proud and do it for yourself-that&#8217;s when you will be successful in life and both on and off stage!<\/p>\n<p>#\u200eposingcoach \u202a#\u200eposing \u202a#\u200eposingcoachmelbourne \u202a#\u200epose \u202a#\u200enatkitneyposingcoach \u202a#\u200efitnessmodel \u202a#\u200ebikinimodel \u202a#\u200efitness \u202a#\u200egym \u202a#\u200ebikinigirl \u202a#\u200elift \u202a#\u200ebodybuilding \u202a#\u200emuscles \u202a#\u200echicksthatkift #fitness #lift #fitnessmodel #anbvictoria #anbaustralia #naturalathlete<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Because your life needs substance beyond your reflection in the mirror and your 30 seconds on stage\u2026 An honest, real and raw post from a posing champion on mine Jackie on what so many girls (including myself) go through post comp. #Repost @jackiebutler_ \u30fb\u30fb\u30fb ? &#8211; So many people ask me what I&#8217;m doing now, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[20,21,22,23,24,25,26,34,27,28,29,30,31],"class_list":["post-7010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-competing","tag-bikinigirl","tag-bikinimodel","tag-bodybuilding","tag-fitness","tag-fitnessmodel","tag-gym","tag-lift","tag-muscles","tag-natkitneyposingcoach","tag-pose","tag-posing","tag-posingcoach","tag-posingcoachmelbourne"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.0 - 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